{"id":272228,"date":"2025-11-30T11:00:12","date_gmt":"2025-11-30T00:00:12","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.russh.com\/?p=272228"},"modified":"2025-11-28T14:02:08","modified_gmt":"2025-11-28T03:02:08","slug":"state-of-dinnertime-loneliness-and-dining-together","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.russh.com\/state-of-dinnertime-loneliness-and-dining-together\/","title":{"rendered":"Why aren&#8217;t we sitting at the dinner table anymore?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>In my share house, food was our religion.<\/p>\n<p>Time spent chopping and frying in our kitchen was time spent worshipping at the church of self-love. And like many, we turned to cooking as a source of comfort over the pandemic and its subsequent years; sharing our culinary endeavours on social media, prowling <em>Bon Appetit<\/em>\u00a0for our <a href=\"https:\/\/www.russh.com\/5-simple-recipes\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">next household meal<\/a>. To many a starry-eyed Instagram commenter I replied, \u201cFood is the one of the few pleasures we have left!\u201d.<\/p>\n<p>We started small. A little rock salt, a little goat\u2019s cheese. We worked our hands around homemade pasta dough and freshly pinched gyozas. We weren\u2019t game enough to tackle the sourdough loaf, but many crisp focaccias were made. Our housemate Jack changed our lives with a bowl of smoked pancetta bolognese. Rich, turmeric fish curries slipped into heavy rotation. And then, there was that brief-yet-all-consuming homemade ramen phase.<\/p>\n<p>In the warmth of long autumn afternoons on our front verandah, we debated the merits of vegetarianism, of the garlic bread at our local Dominos, of how a Pet Nat is made and what makes one so good. And the rest of the world seemed to fall away. Our sense of connection to the outside world dissipated, but I was reminded three times a day how much I missed shared love-ins over a dining room table \u2013 and how distant the concept of communal cutlery and close seating felt.<\/p>\n<blockquote class=\"instagram-media\" style=\"background: #FFF; border: 0; border-radius: 3px; box-shadow: 0 0 1px 0 rgba(0,0,0,0.5),0 1px 10px 0 rgba(0,0,0,0.15); margin: 1px; max-width: 540px; min-width: 326px; padding: 0; width: calc(100% - 2px);\" data-instgrm-permalink=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/reel\/DQrncs8ERSs\/?utm_source=ig_embed&amp;utm_campaign=loading\" data-instgrm-version=\"14\">\n<div style=\"padding: 16px;\">\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<div style=\"display: flex; flex-direction: row; align-items: center;\">\n<div style=\"background-color: #f4f4f4; border-radius: 50%; flex-grow: 0; height: 40px; margin-right: 14px; width: 40px;\"><\/div>\n<div style=\"display: flex; flex-direction: column; flex-grow: 1; justify-content: center;\">\n<div style=\"background-color: #f4f4f4; border-radius: 4px; flex-grow: 0; height: 14px; margin-bottom: 6px; width: 100px;\"><\/div>\n<div style=\"background-color: #f4f4f4; border-radius: 4px; flex-grow: 0; height: 14px; width: 60px;\"><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div style=\"padding: 19% 0;\"><\/div>\n<div style=\"display: block; height: 50px; margin: 0 auto 12px; width: 50px;\"><\/div>\n<div style=\"padding-top: 8px;\">\n<div style=\"color: #3897f0; font-family: Arial,sans-serif; font-size: 14px; font-style: normal; font-weight: 550; line-height: 18px;\">View this post on Instagram<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div style=\"padding: 12.5% 0;\"><\/div>\n<div style=\"display: flex; flex-direction: row; margin-bottom: 14px; align-items: center;\">\n<div>\n<div style=\"background-color: #f4f4f4; border-radius: 50%; height: 12.5px; width: 12.5px; transform: translateX(0px) translateY(7px);\"><\/div>\n<div style=\"background-color: #f4f4f4; height: 12.5px; transform: rotate(-45deg) translateX(3px) translateY(1px); width: 12.5px; flex-grow: 0; margin-right: 14px; margin-left: 2px;\"><\/div>\n<div style=\"background-color: #f4f4f4; border-radius: 50%; height: 12.5px; width: 12.5px; transform: translateX(9px) translateY(-18px);\"><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div style=\"margin-left: 8px;\">\n<div style=\"background-color: #f4f4f4; border-radius: 50%; flex-grow: 0; height: 20px; width: 20px;\"><\/div>\n<div style=\"width: 0; height: 0; border-top: 2px solid transparent; border-left: 6px solid #f4f4f4; border-bottom: 2px solid transparent; transform: translateX(16px) translateY(-4px) rotate(30deg);\"><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div style=\"margin-left: auto;\">\n<div style=\"width: 0px; border-top: 8px solid #F4F4F4; border-right: 8px solid transparent; transform: translateY(16px);\"><\/div>\n<div style=\"background-color: #f4f4f4; flex-grow: 0; height: 12px; width: 16px; transform: translateY(-4px);\"><\/div>\n<div style=\"width: 0; height: 0; border-top: 8px solid #F4F4F4; border-left: 8px solid transparent; transform: translateY(-4px) translateX(8px);\"><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div style=\"display: flex; flex-direction: column; flex-grow: 1; justify-content: center; margin-bottom: 24px;\">\n<div style=\"background-color: #f4f4f4; border-radius: 4px; flex-grow: 0; height: 14px; margin-bottom: 6px; width: 224px;\"><\/div>\n<div style=\"background-color: #f4f4f4; border-radius: 4px; flex-grow: 0; height: 14px; width: 144px;\"><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p style=\"color: #c9c8cd; font-family: Arial,sans-serif; font-size: 14px; line-height: 17px; margin-bottom: 0; margin-top: 8px; overflow: hidden; padding: 8px 0 7px; text-align: center; text-overflow: ellipsis; white-space: nowrap;\"><a style=\"color: #c9c8cd; font-family: Arial,sans-serif; font-size: 14px; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal; line-height: 17px; text-decoration: none;\" href=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/reel\/DQrncs8ERSs\/?utm_source=ig_embed&amp;utm_campaign=loading\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">A post shared by bonappetitmag (@bonappetitmag)<\/a><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p><script async src=\"\/\/www.instagram.com\/embed.js\"><\/script><\/p>\n<p>Food had been our solace throughout lockdown; a hobby my housemates and I had half-jokingly labelled our \u201cemotional coping mechanism\u201d. For us, it was the ultimate healer, and a seemingly effortless conduit for connection and conversation. A well-cooked meal could re-inspire the possibility of little miracles \u2013 so could it also serve as a means to navigate these strange and melancholic times?<\/p>\n<p>One of my favourite food writers, Adam Gopnik, wrote in his book <a href=\"https:\/\/www.amazon.com.au\/Table-Comes-First-Family-Meaning\/dp\/0307476960\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><em>The Table Comes First<\/em><\/a>, \u201cEating, once again, is a social act before it is a purely sensory one; it calls on our moral taste more than our measuring tongue\u201d. And for much of my life, this sentiment has rung true.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>&#8220;A well-cooked meal could re-inspire the possibility of little miracles \u2013 so could it also serve as a means to navigate these strange and melancholic times?&#8221;<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>I was raised in a household where eating dinner together as a family was an immoveable pillar that upheld our days. Phones were never present, and TV dinners were a special occasion (usually reserved for a Friday night when we\u2019d swing past our local Blockbuster). But today, the tradition of gathering for dinner as a household has quietly eroded.<\/p>\n<p>Once a near-universal practice, now <a href=\"https:\/\/www.hellofresh.com.au\/about\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">HelloFresh<\/a>&#8216;s State of Dinnertime Report has found\u00a0that fewer than half of Australian families (34 per cent to be exact) are sitting down together most nights of the week. According to their \u2018State of Dinnertime\u2019 report, busy schedules, after-hours work, and the lure of screens are pulling people in different directions. And in its absence, the subtle rituals that bind us through food\u202f\u2013 passing plates, pausing to ask about someone\u2019s day, the unspoken comfort of eating side by side \u2013 are slipping away. Plates are now balanced on laps, phones aglow nearby.<\/p>\n<p>Researchers warn that this decline is not just about changing domestic routines, but feeding into a broader epidemic of disconnection. \u201cWhen families stop eating together, one of the most reliable daily touchpoints for connection vanishes and can increase feelings of loneliness, especially for children and teens,\u201d Dr Michael Carr-Gregg, one of Australia\u2019s leading psychologists who is working with HelloFresh, tells me. \u201cSharing food is about so much more than nutrition. It\u2019s a daily dose of joy, presence, and togetherness served around the table.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>&#8220;The subtle rituals that bind us through food\u202f\u2013 passing plates, pausing to ask about someone\u2019s day, the unspoken comfort of eating side by side \u2013 are slipping away. Plates are now balanced on laps, phones aglow nearby.&#8221;<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>In Australia, <a href=\"https:\/\/www.sydney.edu.au\/news-opinion\/news\/2025\/08\/04\/more-than-40-percent-of-young-aussies-are-lonely-as-experts-call-for-national-loneliness-strategy.html\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">the University of Sydney reports more than 40 percent of young people now report feeling lonely<\/a>, and those who lack consistent opportunities to share meals or social spaces are more likely to experience long-term psychological distress. \u201cWe rely on those moments to catch up and share, as well as bringing moments of laughter and joy into our homes,\u201d continues Carr-Gregg. \u201cWe lose the chance to process the day\u2019s stresses in a safe environment, which is critical for resilience. They also miss out on building the micro-connections, like what evolves when families cook and enjoy a meal together, that buffer against anxiety and depression.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Right now, we\u2019re seeing loneliness, once dismissed as a passing emotion, increasingly recognised as a public health concern, linked not only to mental health struggles but even to physical conditions like vascular dysfunction in young adults. And without spaces to regularly gather around food\u202f\u2013 whether as families, friends, or communities \u2013\u202fwe risk losing one of our oldest and simplest tools for belonging.<\/p>\n<p>Eating has always been a communal act; one intricately woven into our memories, emotions and identity. \u201cWe recall good dinners as happy days,\u201d Gopnik wrote. Even Nigella concurs: \u201cI know I might seem soupy when I say that I see every mealtime, every mouthful, as a celebration of life, but (with some lamentable exceptions) I do, or I try to. It\u2019s such a waste otherwise.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>&#8220;In Australia, more than 40 percent of young people now report feeling lonely, and those who lack consistent opportunities to share meals or social spaces are more likely to experience long-term psychological distress.&#8221;<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Birthday dinners, wedding cakes, even the solemn clink of champagne in toast at a wake. Our most precious milestones, most intimate moments have always been dogeared by the gustatory. I can still remember the exact Oreo ice cream cake I received every year for my childhood birthdays, and the aroma of the dried spindle of Greek oregano that permeates my Mum\u2019s cooking. When I miss my late Grandmother, I yearn for the fluffy, crisp and honey-drenched Sopapillas that punctuated my trips to visit her in New Mexico.<\/p>\n<p>If these memories remind us of what has been lost, they also sharpen the urgency of finding new ways to restore it. Food alone cannot cure loneliness, but the rituals built around it can offer an antidote to fragmentation. To eat together is to resist disconnection, to carve out a space where presence and care are made tangible. And it is precisely this recognition that is inspiring a new wave of people to create opportunities for gathering, determined to re-establish the table as a site of belonging.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>&#8220;Food alone cannot cure loneliness, but the rituals built around it can offer an antidote to fragmentation. To eat together is to resist disconnection, to carve out a space where presence and care are made tangible.&#8221;<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Among them is Melbourne-based Sophie McIntyre, the founder of Club Sup\u202f\u2013 a now-nationwide Australian supper club that has recently begun branching out abroad. Since its launch in 2021, McIntyre has championed the idea that food is far more than sustenance: it is a powerful conduit for connection and community.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cI loved cooking for my entire life. Still to this day my first instincts are to cook for someone for anything from new babies, heartbreaks or promotions,\u201d McIntyre tells me.<\/p>\n<blockquote class=\"instagram-media\" style=\"background: #FFF; border: 0; border-radius: 3px; box-shadow: 0 0 1px 0 rgba(0,0,0,0.5),0 1px 10px 0 rgba(0,0,0,0.15); margin: 1px; max-width: 540px; min-width: 326px; padding: 0; width: calc(100% - 2px);\" data-instgrm-permalink=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/p\/DNzB6s64q-s\/?utm_source=ig_embed&amp;utm_campaign=loading\" data-instgrm-version=\"14\">\n<div style=\"padding: 16px;\">\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<div style=\"display: flex; flex-direction: row; align-items: center;\">\n<div style=\"background-color: #f4f4f4; border-radius: 50%; flex-grow: 0; height: 40px; margin-right: 14px; width: 40px;\"><\/div>\n<div style=\"display: flex; flex-direction: column; flex-grow: 1; justify-content: center;\">\n<div style=\"background-color: #f4f4f4; border-radius: 4px; flex-grow: 0; height: 14px; margin-bottom: 6px; width: 100px;\"><\/div>\n<div style=\"background-color: #f4f4f4; border-radius: 4px; flex-grow: 0; height: 14px; width: 60px;\"><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div style=\"padding: 19% 0;\"><\/div>\n<div style=\"display: block; height: 50px; margin: 0 auto 12px; width: 50px;\"><\/div>\n<div style=\"padding-top: 8px;\">\n<div style=\"color: #3897f0; font-family: Arial,sans-serif; font-size: 14px; font-style: normal; font-weight: 550; line-height: 18px;\">View this post on Instagram<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div style=\"padding: 12.5% 0;\"><\/div>\n<div style=\"display: flex; flex-direction: row; margin-bottom: 14px; align-items: center;\">\n<div>\n<div style=\"background-color: #f4f4f4; border-radius: 50%; height: 12.5px; width: 12.5px; transform: translateX(0px) translateY(7px);\"><\/div>\n<div style=\"background-color: #f4f4f4; height: 12.5px; transform: rotate(-45deg) translateX(3px) translateY(1px); width: 12.5px; flex-grow: 0; margin-right: 14px; margin-left: 2px;\"><\/div>\n<div style=\"background-color: #f4f4f4; border-radius: 50%; height: 12.5px; width: 12.5px; transform: translateX(9px) translateY(-18px);\"><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div style=\"margin-left: 8px;\">\n<div style=\"background-color: #f4f4f4; border-radius: 50%; flex-grow: 0; height: 20px; width: 20px;\"><\/div>\n<div style=\"width: 0; height: 0; border-top: 2px solid transparent; border-left: 6px solid #f4f4f4; border-bottom: 2px solid transparent; transform: translateX(16px) translateY(-4px) rotate(30deg);\"><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div style=\"margin-left: auto;\">\n<div style=\"width: 0px; border-top: 8px solid #F4F4F4; border-right: 8px solid transparent; transform: translateY(16px);\"><\/div>\n<div style=\"background-color: #f4f4f4; flex-grow: 0; height: 12px; width: 16px; transform: translateY(-4px);\"><\/div>\n<div style=\"width: 0; height: 0; border-top: 8px solid #F4F4F4; border-left: 8px solid transparent; transform: translateY(-4px) translateX(8px);\"><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div style=\"display: flex; flex-direction: column; flex-grow: 1; justify-content: center; margin-bottom: 24px;\">\n<div style=\"background-color: #f4f4f4; border-radius: 4px; flex-grow: 0; height: 14px; margin-bottom: 6px; width: 224px;\"><\/div>\n<div style=\"background-color: #f4f4f4; border-radius: 4px; flex-grow: 0; height: 14px; width: 144px;\"><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p style=\"color: #c9c8cd; font-family: Arial,sans-serif; font-size: 14px; line-height: 17px; margin-bottom: 0; margin-top: 8px; overflow: hidden; padding: 8px 0 7px; text-align: center; text-overflow: ellipsis; white-space: nowrap;\"><a style=\"color: #c9c8cd; font-family: Arial,sans-serif; font-size: 14px; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal; line-height: 17px; text-decoration: none;\" href=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/p\/DNzB6s64q-s\/?utm_source=ig_embed&amp;utm_campaign=loading\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">A post shared by CLUB SUP (@clubsup_)<\/a><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p><script async src=\"\/\/www.instagram.com\/embed.js\"><\/script><\/p>\n<p>\u201cThere is an immense power in a shared meal, more than we give it credit for,\u201d she continues. \u201cWhen I started the club I made an active choice to not serve our tables individual meals. We don&#8217;t ever serve individual meals except for dessert (because you shouldn&#8217;t have to share dessert), because there\u2019s a certain level of care that is required when you&#8217;re sharing a meal. You have to make sure everyone has enough potatoes and enough of the main dish.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>&#8220;There\u2019s a certain level of care that is required when you&#8217;re sharing a meal. You have to make sure everyone has enough potatoes and enough of the main dish.&#8221;<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>McIntyre has spent the last few years first-hand experiencing the ability of food to remedy. \u201cA meal has such power to neutralise everyone from any emotion. From sadness, heartbreak, boredom,\u201d she says. \u201cIt also has the power to be the perfect conversation starter, it can be unifying or divisive \u2013 some people hate anchovies, some people love coriander. All these little things make up the parts of who someone is and that&#8217;s the best way to get to know a stranger.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>But maybe that is precisely why food carries such power: it endures where other rituals fall away. Even as the demands of modern life scatter us across cities, devices, and endless obligations, a shared meal can pull us back into alignment. It reminds us that care does not always need grand gestures. Sometimes it\u2019s as small as refilling someone\u2019s glass without being asked, or silently passing the butter to the person across the table. These ordinary acts become the language of belonging.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>&#8220;A shared meal can pull us back into alignment. It reminds us that care does not always need grand gestures. Sometimes it\u2019s as small as refilling someone\u2019s glass without being asked, or silently passing the butter to the person across the table.&#8221;<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>And in this language, food transmutes loneliness into communion. To sit across from someone, to chew and sip in time with them. No matter how fractured the world outside feels, the table creates a temporary circle of safety and recognition. It is our oldest tool for weaving together the threads of family, friendship, and community.<\/p>\n<p>For my housemates and I, we began to find our way back to each other through food. Transitioning into new phases of life by the dinner table. 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